Why?
Why is it that my children can spend weeks at a time with other people and be delightful? Within minutes of being reunited with me they turn into these impossible, difficult beings?
My #3 child, MissE has been with my Mom for almost two weeks. We picked her up on Thursday after spending ten days with her Grandma. By Friday afternoon it was back to normal. Screaming and fighting with her brother(#2) and sister(#1).
We finished our little camping adventure(more on that later) and came to spend the week with my Mom. Today has been a nightmare. My daughter spent three days with my 11 year old nephew--without ONE fight. They swam, rode bikes, went to the park. They got along great. Enter MY 11 1/2 year old and the nightmare began.
It is so difficult to have fighting children. It makes me old and ugly. It makes me crazy. Tonight after yet another battle, I set down the law. I told them that I will not have it. If they start to fight we will pack up and go home. I will not put myself and my mother through the misery of terrible acting children. It is embarrasing to have children that are smart, healthy children, over five years old, act like they live in a fighting arena. It is embarrasing to me. It is also very disrespectful. I feel like my children don't respect me at all when they act so rotten.